Study: Tai Yuan Cheng psychological Source: Original
second grade, my eyes are a very special girl lit. She is my next table, long black hair, watery eyes, always quiet too would not joking, a very melancholy, beautiful look. Every day, I have to point some attention to her, including classes, I would involuntarily looked at her beautiful long hair and handsome face. I can not control inner feelings, when she left my sight, I would feel a cold loss. But when she passed me, I never find the courage to see more of her. I am happy and painful to be alive and forget to fall into a state of Acacia. bitter poem in the diary piled thick, my live, to me neither cold nor hot. fluttering in the cold rain of the night I was suffering with this feeling, to her confession, but the courage, fear tainted her purity, her fear of rejection, afraid of her I feel dirty, shameless, and even friends can not do. I do not want to anyone for help, but also worried about being parents, teachers know the subject to blame and was ridiculed by the students know. I'm in the hovering between, between the advance and retreat in this and should not, my heart like a broken kite string in the vast floating helplessly in the night, my pain Who knows, who knows ... ... that's wishful thinking, one party against another admiration and love is characterized by feelings of unrequited love, it is a classmates, friends, etc., may be meet by chance, only Yimianzhijiao strangers, and even some of the film, the characters in literature. unrequited love usually consists of two forms: one is from the heart love each other and can not be expressed or was rejected is still infatuated with the unrequited love does not change, the other is the exchanges and friendship with each other the wrong that is generated by love for the opposite sex, with a lot of subjective and arbitrary.
, for example, meet by chance, they met by chance the heart of love for each other, or mistake as other people's friendship or passionate love of their own , nostalgic memorable, but the other party has no such intention, or get along with very short, being each other's beauty and talent attracted people blindly pursue their goal, while the other does not love him (her). can be said to have tasted a lot of adults the physical, psychological development process, the students are in physical maturation, sexual awakening and the development period, started to pay attention to all aspects of the opposite sex, such as appearance, knowledge, skills, etc., such as text, like a boy is a very special girl lit a form of instinct is the human desire to love a normal psychological reaction. but this love is not built on the basis of both men and women fell in love, just a subjective intention of the In general, boys and girls, especially love fantasy, are often vulnerable to inspire some of the reasons for occasional strong attachment to someone, to fall into the whirlpool of love fantasy; the same time, not good at self-control, expect other to love themselves, therefore interested to observe each other's words and deeds, and they are expected to meet their own subjective interpretation. Therefore, unrequited love, some think they will stubbornly with him (her) love, the other to love themselves, so as to continuously each other with their sweet fantasy scenarios and more to pay their warm feelings to return to the other; or, although aware of their own wishful thinking, but could not help but continue to guess, looking nervously confided love each other.
addition, It is also the social environment and cultural edification and other objective factors. the production of unrequited love and film culture living in this wonderful atmosphere, boys and girls who think that life is so wrong and do the same, the result will be wrong to introduce concerns, bring them untold anguish and trouble, so that my mind was entangled in the illusory daily web of love, let yourself tired and affect their normal life. and even tell each other bravely tell the truth, the outcome is also may be
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