Men approach a woman the wrong one - the mentality of fear and shyness

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we will fear, exactly, but you will find each of our boys scared. In life, we all have fears. It depends on each of us to choose over fear, either fear or mercy of our lives. As we approach a strange girl who, when most of us have experienced fear and shyness.
this unpleasant feeling, so you think you are the only an experience in this way fear and shy.
feeling is so strong that no one will make you feel even more bad luck than you, know what I mean? In fact when I think about this matter, I can not help but laugh. I use a lot of time in different circumstances, I am looking girl looking, but is not close to her.
Since then, I recall the situation, deeply regret it, but I still can not overcome the psychological fear, afraid to talk to her.
result only disappointment, embarrassment and frustrated.
as a man, the most painful feeling than some things make you feel like a man, I sometimes was very stubborn, maybe I prefer to punish himself, perhaps I would choose to head against a wall
But anyway, I will not give up.
Although I find the process of my dreams, I have repeated experience of feeling the pain of these concerns, can not get rid of tension, not to speak to her directly in the past. Then, for a few hours or even days of self-blame, but I still can not stepped forward.
Finally one day, I decided to get out of this bondage.
my first wake up, I find that I am not alone, as recognition of the challenges in life make us worry, as close to the girls, We are also worried.
from my close girl the fear is, I understand that, in fact I am not an alternative, I was a special person. you may wish to think so.
I think I need to pause here a moment, so after I found that most boys have similar ideas, this fear is the same to others or yourself. When I think of, I no longer lonely, I get encouraged.
but then when I was learning how to overcome fear is, I learn to the more important thing: I understand that a lot of tell you: you can. If you are willing to uphold an open mind and do some work, I would like to tell you how to do it.
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